It makes no sense at all!

A shout in the dark?
Is it even a phrase?

I cant remember and why should I, it just fits the situation very much perfectly.

How do the situations change their course so abruptly, and why does it all end all at once, like nothing existed. I am not going to bury myself in the history books to find the reason, because it just happens, and if it was to be stopped by a mere human being, the greats who lived before us must have figured a way, sadly they could not.

The sorrow of what falls upon this mankind is not by mere aliens but ourselves, its in the human nature to interfere with the nature and the natural laws, a code of universal truth which it seems we are not entitled to follow.

The universe is huge, vast and so vast that even our imagination cant behold the idea of thinking about its vastness.
Is it just our imagination which takes us through the course of the atrocities occurred against us in our lives, which we all cry about.

The atrocities can have many aspects but is not it that we suit it to ourselves, whatever the reason may be, the victims of the wars are both winners and losers, but history was and never will be bias free.

Wars? We are all at war, with ourselves, our hearts, brains, eyes, hands and not only us but with other human beings and anything living on this planet earth, oh well, I remember, i am at war too, but with my past, and for a win which enlightens my future with my past not tainting it, isn't it happiness?
Right now it is, for me

One life, endless relations! (Part I)

                One life, endless relations! 
                   (The teenage relation)
                             (Part I)


In a 'relationship', a new feed pops up on your Facebook home page. What would be the reaction? Who has posted, who is related, or how should you respond? The first few thoughts strike your mind and the story ends here. Go back and think again, what would have happened? How did your friend ended up in a relationship? What does that mean for him, for you? Go back a bit further and think again, what is a Relationship? That is where the story gets a full stop.

Did you ever thought what a relation would practically mean, keeping aside the dictionary or the literal meaning. Now go through the thinking process again and start coming back from where it started from. 


The first step, what if someone asks you to define a relation, what would be your answer? A relation is a connection or a bond between you and someone else, that is all. This might be appropriate for an answer but never satisfying.
It is not a connection, its a mixed set of feelings, combine expectations, emotions, actions and reactions and attraction, you get it all!


Its an attachment that counts for everything in your life. Look around, your parents, brothers, sisters, friends and spouse, they are all relations. They have an effect and influence on your life in one way or another, eternal or temporary.


There is one thing that brings me back to the topic , a relation that does not hold a recognition, stuck between your personal and professional life, having probably the most effect on your life.
The 'Informal relation' or a 'relationship' that us, most of the teenagers know. 
Let everything aside, did it ever hit your mind that how did you get in? what were the feelings and what is the situation with the time passing? 

No matter how it started, or how it is going, if i ask you to define it in one word, can you? A large percentage cant, not to blame anybody, that is a task made impossible, because there is much more on stake, where the problem stands is that not many of you know how to define or express your true feelings, if there are any. 
Frankly speaking, most of the conversations in our modern relationships start with 'Hey, i love you' and end up with a 'kiss'. There is actually much more than these couple of words.

Let me explain the benefits of a teenage relationship. You get attention, you get to share your happiness and sorrow that you cant with anyone else, your feelings ignite, your heart stumbles at everything, your world is new and fresh with every morning, infact you are having the time of your life. 
Apart from all these truths, if you really enjoy them at all, everything else is just like you have your world a fake fantasy, for i swear that is true!

Not to discuss the fake relationships, i recall a true relationship. How much have you sacrificed, the tears, the feelings, the anger or the emotions? How much did you compromise? How far can you go, and the most important, whats on stake from both the sides? 


Teenage is a passionate part of your life, and the boiling fresh blood can do the impossible. Are you wasting your time and energy or have you made the right choice? 


The selection of your choice is directly linked with your dependency on the values that you hold, and the worth that it has. Since the start how much have you compromised, on your desires and the choices? How many times did you kill yourself trying to refrain from doing something that is not acceptable for your 'special one'? In a normal relation you go through a depressing stage that comes back to haunt you over and over again. 

Do you have the required capacity to tolerate it all? During the hardest of times you might have screamed, tried to burn down your feelings, showed your anger and frustrations, the lava inside you might have exploded, but the question is, what for? Does the other 'special person' deserves this, are you getting something in return? 
The fact is that even after all that, you must have gone back, the other person might have done the same, but the point is how far can you go? How far can you drag a relation? 


To this one, the answer is 'long term compatibility' and sincerity, if you have these tools and if you are relying on them, giving some respect, you have made the right choice certainly! 


TO BE CONTINUED!

Girls - Lovely as they are.

                                       
                   Girls - Lovely as they are
Girls are the most difficult when you come to understand them. No matter how experienced you are, still you may miss something, dont worry, not your fault, you can never get to understand the most complex living thing present on this Planet Earth. No Offence!

This all Mythology i am about to present is based not only on experience but also on the perception that not only me, but most of the Boys Possess, no Denying!

The most important fact about girls is there special Nerve of trying to get attention, wanted or unwanted. This may be a part of their nature, but at times it creates alot of problems, blame to be set on any guy Later.

The above slogan represents the ability of girls not only to retain the friendship with another girl for years or rather to break a friendship of decades in a tiny fraction of a second, not to blame them, its there nature.

They have a very adore-able ability of defending there friends, not only in times of need but also when it happens to be that she might be losing  fight.

This awesome ability does not go along with the mostly called insincere boys!

''YOU BROKE MY HEART AND I AM NOT GONNA FORGET YOU, EVER''

You may be familiar to this statement, as most of the boys are, no one is aware of whats next, Crocodile tears, oh sorry i mean tearing eyes or either a patch up. Whatever it is, fasten your seat belts already, its a sincere public advice!

It happens to be that i totally forgot, Girls and Shopping may seem to rhyme, no, you dont have to say it loud, it actually does not. But in practical means, they have a rather really strong relationship that might overcome you, esp the Husbands, the cruel Husbands. 

''Shopping is a real complicated thing, if you are girl''

Even complicated than a relationship, you might find a handsome Boy later but you might not find the same product anymore, unless your Husband owns the Company.

Anyhow, as i tend to move towards a rather nasty end,, here is the truth.

Girls are the most important part of boys, and that is, a Fact.

They can make your life so beautiful that you might feel like you are dreaming, that is a natural gift they are presented with. Charming, Lovely, and Patience might be one of there never ending abilities, with the fact that you need to treat them the same way. 

''As you Sew, shall you Reap''

Fights and Break-ups might be a usual happening, but no worries, it makes a relationship stronger, look around, and think for a while, you may find it true, if not, do not try this at your girl.

'' I am extremely sorry if any one felt bad on whatever i said, it happens to be that i dont have the ability to HIDE things inside me, its better to be the same from inside out, rather than be rotten from inside and handsomely beautiful from outside. 

I am a victim of this Beautiful Creature, and yeah, you had guessed it already. 

But love to make that mistake again and again, because its a mistake worth making''

Take Care.

Please fake a smile for me.

Regards - A brutal Victim!